Tuesday, November 26, 2013

LOST KEYS ARE NEVER FOUND BY SEARCHING



Trying to force things into happening never works. It is rather like this quote written by a psychotherapist, from the book "The Way of The Fertile Soul" by Dr. Randine Lewis. All of us at some point have experienced this.

"It's like losing your keys. You look everywhere and anywhere--sometimes you look in the same place multiple times--but you still have no keys. It is when you give up looking that they suddenly appear under your nose and you're amazed that they were right there the whole time. You swear you looked there! I looked for my keys(to a happier life) for three years. I used every flashlight, strobe light, and digging machine I could find. I didn't want to stop looking because I didn't want to give up that sense of control. Letting go of control is the hardest step of this fertility program but it's the one with the greatest reward. When you stop trying to control the outcome, everything that you're looking for will come to you. your keys will be found. They've been there all along." This is true for so many things in life not just trying to conceive a baby but trying to conceive almost all aspects in your life, even the mundane of finding your lost keys. But it is the key to life! The more we pursue the pursuit the more we can drive ourself crazy with anxiety. So as one Guru stated "Stop and Keep Quiet, Stop the Search" Then in a calmer state of mind of inner peace you will know what to do, it will appear before you. The path will be shown and your desires fulfilled.